1st world Problems

1st world problems, 
We generally dont think our problems are anything but our problems and even the most trival things give us cause to complain and put them above others. I feel so ashamed that I am so stressed out at the moment about my jobs and family stress and things that I know I am taking for granted when others have literally nothing. These issues are considered 1st world problems, i.e. the lady at starbucks made your coffee wrong, you pay for the most expensive wifi and its not working as fast as it should, you have to many clothes and not enough closet space, you have so much food that you dont know what to cook for dinner so you order out. Those are all first world issues that are literally not issues but we stress about them. My husband, bless his very well intended heart, has been so stressed out because in our house we dont have the best furniture and hes seen other peoples houses around us and they have matching curtains and stuff. It makes him feel terrible because we dont. However, I have never been super crazy about having super nice furniture, mainly because I know how stupid it is. I know and have seen first hand what happens when life throws a curve ball or life ends. That expensive furniture that your kids and pets cant get on so your house look barely lived in, just end up at goodwill or in a yard sale. He thinks because we are a family now that, that is what is expected of us. I on the other hand could care less about that. I would much rather spend money on more important things, like traveling with my family or things that we actually need. I am content with the furniture we have, I know we can do better and I know we will but I also know that Rome wasnt built in a day and neither will our lived be built in a day. 
I am really stressed though about my jobs. I need to be making some serious money in order to 1. Get out of debt and 2. help out more around here. I hate that my husband feels like Im so use to having someone else take care of me when I am not! I have been on my feet before, I have kicked ass before. I have also had a breakdown and a bunch of bad luck since then. One thing after another for the last 2 years just kicking me in the ass and knocking me back down. I have been trying to get back up and by Gods will I will get back up on my own 2 feet and he will not see me as such a failure.